ABOUT BABY SLEEP WITH AINSLEE

My mission at Baby Sleep With Ainslee:

To remove sleep stress from parenthood and give you the confidence to follow what actually works, for your baby and your family.

Because you don’t need perfection. You just need sleep that feels doable throughout ALL the seasons (the next household virus I am looking at you👀).

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Ohhh Hey,

I'm Dr. Ainslee!

I am a holistic Sleep Coach, Chiropractor, and Mother…aka a woman who once Googled “why won’t my baby sleep” at 3am more times than I’ll ever admit.

I live in the mighty Manawatū with my husband, two kids, and one very average guard dog.

I’ve been a chiropractor for a decade, working with pregnancy, postpartum recovery, babies and families, supporting parents is my jam.

And then I became a mum in 2019… and sleep became my Roman Empire.

Everyone asked me, “Is he sleeping through yet?”

Meanwhile, I was barely sleeping at all, drowning in mum guilt and convinced I was failing at the one thing everyone seemed to care about.

At 6 months, I hit a wall.

I didn’t want to sleep train… but my options felt like “sleep train or slowly lose your mind.”

So we sleep trained.

It helped for a moment… until every tooth, every cold, every new milestone unravelled it, and we started all over again. After a year of this loop, I literally couldn’t do another round.

So I threw the “sleep rules” out the window and followed my instincts.

And guess what?

When I stopped fighting my baby’s biology… sleep got better. A lot better.

Which left me wondering: Why did the “rules” make things harder, and why did following my instincts WORK?

...So I hunted for in depth, evidence-based education (not the “certified in a weekend” stuff) and I became a:

⭐ Possums NDC Accredited Practitioner — the gold standard for understanding settling, feeding, cry/fuss behaviour, and sleep

⭐ Holistic Sleep Program Graduate — the only university-level infant sleep qualification in the world

⭐ Safe Sleep Certified - Via the University of Durham

💡 Fun fact: infant sleep is an unregulated industry… so the quality of “training” varies wildly. I intentionally chose the most rigorous, evidence-based pathways I could find and continue to upskill annually.

Who's This Perfect For

BUSINESS OWNERS

AGENCIES

CREATORS

INFLUENCERS

COACHES

TRAINERS

YOUTUBERS

SAASPRENEURS

AFFILIATES

let me guess...

You’ve been secretly wondering if your baby’s broken.

or maybe...

You you can't figure out what you are doing 'wrong'

I'm here to tell you 'the secret to sleep'

you aren't doing it wrong and your baby isn't broken, but you are likely following outdated sleep advice that wasn't built for your unique baby, and that is where I can help.

We put the connection back in sleep.

Baby sleep advice is loud, full of contradictions, and often made up BS.

We’re told responding to our babies is “wrong.” But attachment science says otherwise, ignoring a baby with a developing brain doesn’t make sense.

Here’s the truth: How your baby sleeps is not a reflection of your parenting. You’re doing an incredible job.

I help families feel more rested with:

No sleep training - we don't need to use cry it out

No “gentle” rebrands of sleep training

No leaving your baby to cry alone

Realistic, evidence-based support

Family-first solutions tailored to your unique needs

If you want honest, wholesome sleep help without the cookie-cutter crap, I’m your gal.

If my style feels too real, sweary or blunt, I’m not.

Now, I support families using a holistic, biology-led, responsive approach:

✨ No sleep training
✨ No ignoring temperament
✨ No forcing babies into schedules designed for someone else’s child

II assess BOTH baby sleep and parent sleep, because sleep is a dyad, not a solo sport.
My goal isn’t to force babies to sleep through the night (we can’t “make” anyone sleep).

My goal is to help you understand your child’s sleep needs, rhythms, and development so we can make sleep easier, more sustainable, and far less anxiety-inducing.